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posted on May 7, 2008 (modified on May 7, 2008)

I am a 31yr old recently divorced mom of 3 kids. i was in a marriage for 12 yrs., and because of his disposition as a husband my kids and i have been thrust into a sandstorm and i'm trying desperately to feel my way through. i don' know who to talk to or where to turn. my greatest fear is because of my financial unstableness my children and i will suffer for something that i virtually had no control over. i'm lost and dont know what to do. i look at my kids everyday and my heart breaks even more.i want to give my kids the world they deserve it,they're good kids and dont deserve to go through this storm.pls help......lost,confused, and anxious to start living.

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6. Douglas-King posted on May 26, 2008

Mizz,

It's sad to read what you and your kids are going through. I am surprised that your husband couldn't see the passion and love in you as a woman, wife and mother to his kids. Ur commitment alone to carry his babies and today makes him a father should be well appreciated by him. I looked into your innocent face and could not imagine why you should be treated in-humanely like that by someone  you love so much over the years.

Unfortunatley, all is not lost keep heart and never cease praying. God knows why. He will protect and takes care of you and your children. Live up to him and he will meet your needs anytime. Have comfort and solace for now in your kids while waiting on the Lord. Take care

crossboy56
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5. crossboy56 posted on May 9, 2008

Contact TX. state unemployment office.

www.hud.gov/local/index.cfm?state=tx , for Section 8 rental assistance or to help buy your home.

 

Mischelle
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4. Mischelle posted on May 9, 2008
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Hi Melissa

God always hear every cry. You just might not get the answer you want. If you aren't getting what you want, it's not time for you to have it. There is still something that you need to do before this prayer is answered. But sometimes the answer is "no". Just be patient. That is the key. He gives you what you need when you need it. Something else may be blocking it. Always be specific in your prayers and mean it within your heart. Talk to him as if you're talking to you best friend after all, he is.

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3. ekikaseven posted on May 9, 2008
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Hey Girl,

You have got it going on.

You are so right about trusting in God.  He can take us further than we think possible.

I'm proud of you.  Keep up the good work.

God bless you.

Mischelle
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2. Mischelle posted on May 8, 2008

Hi mizz yella This is Mischelle. I have been divorced for almost 19 years. I have 3 daughters. My oldest was 8 when we divorced. I only had 2 kids when I divorced. My third child is another story. I say we because their father no longer wanted to have anything to do with us as a whole. My oldest is now 27 with her own family. My youngest at the time is 23 with two kids of her own. They both are out of the house. During these years of raising my children alone, I gave them everything they needed and when I could, what they wanted. They never participated in any sports or activities at school. But they had what they needed at home. I haven't received food stamps in over 10 years because I bought a dependable car. I never received a welfare check because they say I made too much money. I haven't had any real relationships since I was divorced. My children didn't want me to even now. No man has ever given me money to pay any bills. My third child's father, it was his idea to have a child. While I was pregnant, he withdrew and by the time she was 2 weeks old, I put him out because he wasn't coming home after work or weekends... he was already gone. Now i'm raising her on my own. My ex-husband, now in prison owes me more than 104 thousand dollars in child support and my youngest daughter's father owes me about 74 thousand, money I will never get. In spite of this, I own my home, and a 2005 honda accord. It's not the fanciest, but it's mine. I give total credit to My God for my accomplishments. There have been times when I didn't know what I was going to do. God is always on time. My children are good kids. Now that they have children of their own, they understand why things were the way they were and because of the way they were raised, they are responsible parents. My 15 year old is even cost conscious. They all have told me, "I may not get what I want when I ask for it, but Mom always get what we ask for. Oh, we have 2 computers, playstation 2, 4 televisions, gameboy advance, NintendoDS, all on my income. As long as you are responsible and do the right thing, you will make it. I always bought clearance merchandise. Just be patient in all your purchases. Oh, I make less than twelve dollars an hour and everything in my house is paid for. I don't do credit cards; I never have. I do layaway and clearance. Be patient and keep your head up. As long as you depend on you and God, and no one else, you can do it. I did go back to school and get an associates degree in Computer Info Processing and now have a job in my field. I left Wal-Mart 8 months ago after 14 years. I like my job now. I found things easier being single. You have one less child to care for. You can still live, It's up to you how you live.

Only Want The Best
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1. Only Want The Best posted on May 8, 2008

Dear Mizz Yella,

  Be Strong & Trust in the Lord. Although you are facing adversity you will perservere.I can't offer you any financial help due to my own situation, but my words hopefully are uplifting to your heart. God takes us through so many obstacles, circumstances and tribulations to make us understand that man fails every time, but God will never fail.  Everything that happen in our lives are for His Glory. You can talk  about your problems all the time, but when you Let Go & Let god handle them you will have nothing to worry about. Like the saying goes, " If you are going to worry about it don't Pray about it, but if you Pray about it don't worry about it" ! You and your children will be alright even though you can't see the outcome. you will reap all joy afterwhile.

God Bless,

Juanetta

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